There May Be An Easier Way To Communicate With Your Wee One
Communicating without words
A conversation between my 18-month-old son and me is one that a passerby isn't likely to forget. There have been countless meals at restaurants where my family has been the subject of curious glances, stares and even questions from perfect strangers.
Best of all, he can tell us he needs a drink of milk, is scared of the thunder, or wants down from his high chair, all without making a sound. This seeming miracle of communication was made possible by American Sign Language, the primary means of communication used for hearing impaired individuals. With the help of Dr Joseph Garcia's book and video, Sign With Your Baby, I was able to integrate sign language into my son's life and use it as a means of communication, starting when he was 11 months old.
How to get started
Through my seven months of sign language experience, I've learned exactly what works and what may not. Here are a few hints to get parents started signing with their infants:
- Choose a sign(s) to begin with. Many parents choose milk, more, eat, drink or a favorite toy.
- Show your child the sign(s) during an activity (for example, during nursing, if you choose to begin with milk, or before dinner, if you choose to begin with eat).
- Use the sign(s) before or during the activity, and show your baby the sign every time you do the activity.
- Use your chosen sign(s) until your baby begins to sign back to you, then choose another sign and start the process over again. The more signs your baby knows, the easier it will be for him or her to pick them up.
Some parents have started signing from birth, but the parents I've talked to have reported success from six or seven months. It usually takes some time before a child begins to sign back to you. You will probably notice that he or she recognizes and understands the sign before attempting to sign it. For example, I started signing when my son was 11 months old and he first signed back to me five weeks later.
Explore resources for successful signing
There are many resources online and sign language dictionaries in the local library, as well as books specific to this subject.
The key to success is to be consistent, show a smile, applaud your child's efforts and be patient. Someday, you will be attracting attention at the mall, too! And you will know so much more about what is going on in your baby's head, and your bond will be that much closer. Good luck!<