1. You need to allow your baby to learn from some of his own mistakes as he grows. Keep safety...
1. You need to allow your baby to learn from some of his own mistakes as he grows. Keep safety in mind, but allowing mistakes without harsh criticism is important for your tot and allows him to blossom as an individual. 2. Blaming, threatening, and shaming a child isn't helpful, and really only makes you a bully. Treat your child how you like to be treated, with respect and kindness. 3. Teach with actions. If you say please, so will your child. If you treat others well, so will your tot. Actions really do speak louder than words. 4. Allow choices. Children, even babies, deserve choices in their world, no matter how small. Start easy with which clothes to wear, which toy to play with, or which story to read. 5. Babies and even older kids need lots of hugs and kisses. If you grew up in a home where hugs and kisses were not valued, it's time to break that cycle. 6. There is always a way to avoid hitting a child. Do you like being hit? No, of course you don't. Take a break, yell for a minute (in moderation), or get really mad if you need to. But physical violence only teaches your child that hitting is the best way to solve problems, and we all know it's not. 7. Tell your little one that you're sorry when you make a mistake. Kids do remember this stuff. 8. Develop your own hobbies and interests. You'll be a far better parent if you spend some time on your own goals. 9. Don't compare your child to other kids. It's not fair, and no one appreciates being constantly compared to their peers. We're all individuals with our own skills, strengths, and limitations. Your baby is no different. 10. Accept and value yourself as a mama - if you accept yourself (mistakes and all), your child will mimic that and value his own personality. What important lesson would you add to this list?
